Friday, February 25, 2011

Day 5 ~ Guangzhou

Today we left the city of Guiyang and flew a little over an hour to the city of Guangzhou.  For such a short flight, we feel like we landed on another planet!  In Guiyang we were confined to our hotel unless our guide was with us ~ and then it was just to go a very short walk away.  Our hotel was in the midst of crumbling tenements, horrible traffic and pollution, street vendors, and beggars (which Wu Yi always noticed and always asked us to give money to them!).  Guangzhou is a modern, clean, and tourist friendly city.  Our hotel (The Garden) is beautiful! We are in a two room suite with a view of a waterfall and gardens below us, as well as new skyscrapers with flashy light shows all around us.  Our new guide, Elsie, met us at the airport, took us to our hotel, and gave us a map of the area surrounding the hotel to explore as we wish.  We walked around in the warm weather (70 degrees) and admired the flowers, trees, and upscale shopping centers and restaurants all by ourselves!  What a change!  I was dreading staying another week in China, but now I am feeling a little more enthusiastic (still wish we could come home though!)
It was another stressful day for Wu Yi.  She was quiet this morning, even when Wendy came to take us to the airport.  Wendy got us checked in and walked us to the security checkpoint and then quietly said goodbye to us.  We will miss her ~ she was so much more than a tour guide ~ she was an important transitional person for the 3 of us in this process.  After we went through the scanners, Wu Yi looked back a few times ~ I'm sure she wondered where Wendy went.  We sat at our gate for 20 minutes and when we got up to walk to the plane, Wu Yi started to cry.  She kept looking back and as we got onboard, the crying got louder.  As we buckled her into her seat, we, for the first time as parents, became THOSE people on the plane who can't shut their crying kid up.  :)  The flight attendants came to help us and asked us why she was screaming to let her use the phone!  Once again, I am so greatful to the nice Chinese people who come to our rescue with Wu Yi.  In addition to the flight attendants, we had a couple of other young women trying to help us comfort Wu Yi.  Fortunately, by the time we took off, she slumped against me in exhaustion and fell asleep.
After getting to our hotel room, she immediately went to the phone and started making phone calls.  Because the orphanage didn't recongnize the new number, they picked up and talked to her for awhile.  Eventually, someone hung up on her, and Don discreetly unplugged our hotel phone, so she didn't have to endure that again.
Nice news for us ~ we have American neighbors in the room right next door to us!  The McCains, another WACAP family from the Seattle area, arrived shortly after we did with their new daughter Ella.  We spent some time in our room getting to know each other and it was so great to have that extra support and companionship!  Ella is much younger than Wu Yi, but we are looking forward to sightseeing and spending time with them while in Guangzhou.
Sorry for no new photos today!  Wu Yi doesn't like us taking her picture and she has pretty much been scowling all day anyway.  I am sure we will make some bonding progress while here, as we don't have a Chinese "constant companion" guide for her to bond with.  Sorry, my sweet girl ~ you're stuck with us.  :)

6 comments:

  1. I can totally relate to feeling like Guangzhou is so different from Guiyang! In a way, Jon and I felt like we were in Guiyang for an eternity just because we were stuck at the hotel so much. We were in the Sheraton which was good in the sense that we were in a nice part of town and there were a couple little parks nearby, but we still felt like we couldn't wander far.

    Reading about Wu Yi crying on the plane made me feel for you guys. We were those parents too!! Thanks for the daily updates. I love getting up every morning and reading about your day. I hope that Wu Yi will start bonding with you more quickly now that you are in Guangzhou!
    April

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  2. Glad you made it safely, and I'm sure you'll enjoy Guangzhou. Smart idea with the phone cord.

    My best,
    Ruby

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  3. The only time our daughter didn't scream on the plane was when she was eating. Things got much better with every day that passed. I'll be praying that things go that way for you, too!

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  4. I am so happy you are one step closer to home! I am sure this week will go faster for you and it sounds like you 3 will get to see some great sites. Looking forward to Saturday the 5th.

    Love,
    Mom, Kim and Boys

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  5. Oh Jolene & Bullet... what a journey. I am just loving to be able to share in your new parenthood, unlike many of us never experience! It is simply amazing, captivating & simply remarkable. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU & KELLEN! Be safe friends & thanks for sharing your most precious moments.

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  6. I didn't know you are working with WACAP, Jolene. I know many adoption social workers there. I am completely moved by your journey... thank you for sharing. Holding you all in my thoughts.
    Cousin Rachelle

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